Company

We’ve run dating apps. Now we run them for others.

Our team has spent 25 years building and running dating businesses. We know the hard parts because we’ve lived them: payment providers that drop you, scammers who move faster than your rules, app reviews that land on launch day, and an infrastructure bill that grows whether members do or not.

200+brands on the platform
25 yrsin online dating
<0.3%payment disputes
4 hrsfor a person to review a reported profile
Why we built it

Every dating app was building the same plumbing.

Every dating app needs the same things underneath: accounts, photos, matching, chat, moderation, ID checks and payments. And almost every dating company has built them from scratch, then paid a team to keep them alive for years.

That made sense when apps were growing fast. It doesn’t now. Payers are falling, installs cost twice what they did, and safety law keeps adding work. The money spent keeping old plumbing running is money not spent on the brand, the product or the members.

So we built one platform to handle those parts well, ran our own brands on it, and opened it up. Dating API is that platform, for established apps that want out of the infrastructure business and back into the brand business.

Leadership

Who’s behind Dating API.

Big decisions deserve to know who’s on the other side. A real name and a real track record.

Bill AlenaBill AlenaFounder and CEO

About 25 years in online dating as an operator and investor. Chief revenue officer at myYearbook, ran monetisation at The Meet Group, and chief investment and growth officer at Social Discovery Group. LinkedIn

How we work

Four promises we put in writing.

No revenue share. Ever.

Your members’ money is yours. We charge a clear fee for a clear service.

No lock-in

Your data, your app, your listing and your brand stay yours. If you leave, we help you go.

Mainstream dating only

No adult, sugar or fraud-driven models on the shared network or in mainstream apps. It keeps members safe and payment partners happy.

Plain English

Contracts, reports and invoices you can read without a lawyer translating.

The group

Part of High Intent Media.

High Intent Media brings together a dating platform, a portfolio of consumer dating brands, and a publication and events business for the dating industry. Dating API is the group’s service for established apps.

Company
Dating API is run by High Intent Media Inc.
Platform
In production since 2024
Registered office
16192 Coastal Highway, Lewes, Delaware 19958, USA
Registered
Delaware corporation, file number 10670515

Meet the people who run it.

30 minutes with the team behind the platform. Bring your hardest questions.

  • 1No sales scriptSomeone who has run a dating app.
  • 2Your questions firstWe listen before we pitch.
  • 3A straight answerIncluding “we’re not the right fit”.
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