> Dating app backend platform | Dating API: https://www.datingapi.io/platform Product / Platform # Everything under a dating app. Already built. Ten parts every dating app needs and members never see, plus something no software vendor can give you: a shared network of millions of members. Built only for dating and shared by 200+ brands, so you pay a share instead of the whole bill. [See your app rebuilt](https://www.datingapi.io/contact#preview) [Read the API docs](https://www.datingapi.io/developers) platform.datingapi.io / yourbrand / safety Overview Safety Members Payments Releases Network Settings New profiles **4,812** *today* Checked before shown **100%** *median 41s* Scams removed **137** *avg 3m 12s* ID verified **38%** *+2.1 pts* Review queue 12 waiting New profile 3 photos · prompt · Leeds Approve Reject Report: asked for money 2 reports · 4 messages Remove Warn Photo: possible stock image reverse match 92% Hold Approve How it fits together ## Your brand on top. Our platform underneath. Look closely at our logo and you’ll see the idea: a heart standing on a stack. Members see your brand. Everything that holds it up is ours to run. Your app ### Your brand Name and design Your features Prices and paywalls Marketing Dating API ### The dating platform Members Matching Messaging Safety ID checks Payments Email Network Infrastructure ### Run and watched for you Cloud hosting Backups Monitoring On-call cover What makes us different ## We give you the technology. We can give you the members. Most platform vendors stop at software. Then you pay [$2.76 an install](https://www.adjust.com/blog/state-of-dating-apps/) to fill it. Dating API comes with a shared network you can plug into on day one, or keep well away from. The technology ### Everything under your app Members, matching, messaging, safety, ID checks, payments and releases, run for you. The members ### A shared network, if you want it Millions of real members. Private, backfilled or fully shared, set by you. [How the network works](https://www.datingapi.io/network) The ten parts ## What each part does, and what you control. Every part is switched on by default when we run your app. If your developers build on the API, take the parts you need. 01 ### Members and profiles Sign-up to delete #### What it does Sign-up, sign-in, profiles, photos with cropping, the fields your app asks for, settings and account deletion. #### You control Which fields you ask for, how many photos are required, and the sign-up steps. 02 ### Matching and discovery Deck and search #### What it does A fresh deck of people not yet seen, search with filters, likes, passes, views, reactions and the match itself. #### You control Filters, sort options, how the deck is ordered, and what free members can see. 03 ### Messaging Threads and photos #### What it does One thread per person, text and photos, unread counts, priority messages and introductions. #### You control Who can message whom, what needs a plan, and how many new chats a day. 04 ### Safety and moderation Expert moderation #### What it does Every profile and photo checked by AI moderation (Sightengine), with rules shaped by 25 years of dating safety, supervised by our trust and safety team. Reported profiles are reviewed by a person within 4 hours, and appeals of automated decisions go to a person (for every partner by January 2027). #### You control Your community rules, report reasons, and how strict to be in each market, above the network minimum. 05 ### ID and age checks Verified badge #### What it does Government ID and selfie checks with a verified badge, plus age checks for laws like the UK Online Safety Act. Available from 30 November 2026, with written consent. #### You control Whether ID checks are optional or required (age estimation at sign-up is always on once face checks start), and what verified members unlock. 06 ### Payments Under 0.3% disputes #### What it does App Store and Google Play reporting, hosted web checkout where store rules allow, failed payment recovery, refunds and chargebacks. #### You control Plans, prices, offers, coins and what each plan includes. 07 ### Email and engagement Deep links #### What it does Welcome, confirmation, new message, digest and receipt emails. Every link opens the right screen in your app. #### You control Which emails go out, your sender name, and your templates. 08 ### The shared network Private · backfill · shared #### What it does A shared pool of millions of real members across 500+ dating sites. Launch into it, use it to backfill quiet areas behind your own members, or stay fully private. [How it works](https://www.datingapi.io/network) #### You control The mode, by country, age band, plan or brand. When backfill starts. Verified members only. Whether your members are shown back. Change it any time, without a release. 09 ### Partner console Roles and sign-in #### What it does One place for your team to see members, safety, payments and releases, with roles and an audit trail. #### You control Who sees what. Your safety lead never needs to see revenue, and the other way round. 10 ### Data and reporting Your data #### What it does Daily numbers on members, matches, messages, safety and money, plus full exports whenever you want them. #### You control Exports, where your data lives, and how long we keep it. Who does what ## We run the plumbing. You run the chemistry. Everything that involves other people runs on Dating API. Everything that makes your brand different stays yours. That’s exactly how Dating Lab is built. ### You run - Your brand, name and app design - The features that make you different - Prices, offers and paywalls - Marketing and growth - Your roadmap, and the final say on every release ### We run - Servers, uptime and scaling - Accounts, profiles, photos and search - Likes, matches and messages - Moderation, ID checks and age checks - Payments operations and disputes - App releases, store submissions and support - The shared network, if you want it Dating Lab Daily Lab screen Dating Lab Crafted opener screen Dating Lab Messages screen Reference app ### Dating Lab kept its magic and handed over the rest. Dating Lab sells calm, considered dating: six curated people a day and openers written for you. All of that stays with the Dating Lab team. Accounts, photos, search, likes, messages, reports and ID checks moved to Dating API. Their roadmap got shorter. Their stack got smaller. [Read the Dating Lab story](https://www.datingapi.io/customers) Built only for dating ## General tools don’t know what a scammer looks like. Chat, moderation and payments vendors serve every industry. We serve one. That changes what we catch and how fast. ### Romance scams We know the patterns: the quick move off-app, the sudden emergency, the investment tip. Our trust and safety team sees them every day across 200+ brands. ### Fake and stolen photos Every photo is checked against known stock and stolen images before anyone sees it, with anything doubtful held back and flagged to our trust and safety team. ### Payments in dating Dating has its own refund and chargeback patterns. Clear billing keeps disputes under 0.3%, which keeps payment providers happy. Service levels ## What we commit to, in writing. These sit in your contract, with service credits if we miss them. | Measure | Use the API | We run it all | | --- | --- | --- | | Platform uptime, monthly | 99.9% | 99.95% | | New profile checked | Automatically, before it goes live | Automatically, before it goes live | | Reported profile reviewed by a person | Within 4 hours | Within 4 hours | | Personal data breach or significant incident | Within 12 hours (round the clock from November 2026) | Within 12 hours (round the clock from November 2026) | | Member support reply | Your team | Within one working day | | Full data export | Within 10 working days | Within 10 working days | Under NDA ## See your app on the platform. A free cost review shows what your app would cost to run. A fixed-price pilot puts it in TestFlight about two weeks after we have your materials. [Ask about a pilot](https://www.datingapi.io/contact#preview) [Book a walkthrough](https://www.datingapi.io/contact) - 1 **A walkthrough** 45 minutes with someone who has run a dating app. - 2 **The console** See safety, payments and releases for a live brand. - 3 **Your questions** Bring your CTO. Bring the hard ones.